Today I didn't have to do anything. I did, however, get another email from my husband (who must always have the last word, by the way), letting me know that now he knows how my ex-husband felt, because he wanted to work it out and I never gave him the chance. I wanted to reply, but this would just go on and on and on and...So, he'll just have to go on without me telling him he isn't half the man my ex is, that my ex was never as cruel as him, and reminding him that he was the one that wanted the divorce in the first place. I wish I was a lesbian.